In Asian culture, reaching a certain age often entails societal expectations, such as getting married, having children, and forming a family. However, in contemporary times, the question arises: is such a cultural norm universally necessary?

Singaporean TikTok creator and gamer, Le En, recently shared a video on her page @goofyfeline, expressing her perspective on why having children is not always imperative. Le En acknowledges that her views may not align with those of many parents, emphasizing that not everyone possesses the resources, capabilities, or suitable mindset to raise a child adequately.

Highlighting the financial aspect, Le En points out in the video, "Having kids is so expensive." She also discusses the less-discussed physical changes women undergo after childbirth and humorously mentions the patience required in dealing with older children, stating, "When dealing with kids at their later stages of life, you need to have the actual patience of Mother Teresa."

Expanding on her stance, Le En emphasizes the necessity for potential parents to be selfless and address personal issues before becoming parents, to avoid projecting negative emotions onto their children. She also notes that despite raising children with love, external influences can shape their perceptions of their parents.

Le En candidly admits to potential controversy, expressing concerns about the substantial financial burden that may accompany raising a child with special needs or a rare medical condition. She urges viewers to consider these realities, stating, "If you’re not prepared for that kind of thing, then how?"

Despite her points, Le En emphasizes that these are her opinions, acknowledging that having children can be a wonderful experience. She concludes her video by extending well wishes to viewers with children or those expecting, recognizing the positive and challenging aspects of parenthood.

The video received an overwhelmingly positive response, with many commenters applauding Le En for articulating sentiments that resonate with them. Some highlighted economic factors as contributing reasons for not wanting to have children, praising Le En for addressing the often-overlooked complexities of parenthood.

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